Have you not read this Scripture: ‘The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone; this was the Lord’s doing, and it is marvelous in our eyes.”
As the Advent season starts tomorrow, I remember that the way Jesus came into this world was unexpected -- a little baby. The Bible Journaling technique I did on this page, making stones out of washi tape, was meant to reflect that unexpected quality too. Christ compared himself to a cornerstone -- the most crucial part of the building -- and said he was the one that the builders themselves rejected. He was not what they wanted or expected him to be, but he was God's son.
Jesus was not who the religious community anticipated or appreciated. He reminded the people of this scripture about the cornerstone right after he told a parable about the rejection of a vineyard owner’s son. In the parable, it is pretty clear that the vineyard owner represents God, and the vineyard owner’s son is representing Jesus himself. Sometimes it helps to remember that Christ triumphed over rejection. It also helps to remember that Christ himself experienced it.
It is hard to feel like you don’t quite belong in the place where you should feel like you belong.
Yet — Jesus did not fit in.
Jesus, as his personality on this earth unfolded, is a person who intrigues me. He was able to give so much of himself. He could speak to crowds, heal people, and see into their deepest needs. Of course, it helped that he was — and is — God’s son. Yet, even Christ had to go be alone after his work. He had to get quiet and pray. He had to get away from the chaos. There is definitely a pattern of Christ going away from the crowd to be alone.
Our cornerstone did not fit the social mold then or now.
Yet, he is able to meet us, whether we fit it or not.
God doesn’t give up on me, and he doesn’t give up on people who drive me nuts either (This is an honest confession about myself; I struggle with being patient with people who come across as over-bearing, full of themselves, shallow, or unwilling to educate themselves. I am becoming well-aware of my weakness! I care deeply about others, and yet I struggle more often than I want to admit).
In my own thinking, I need to keep that spirit of anticipation in the Advent season. Jesus showed up in an unexpected way then, and I won’t rule it out now either. Maybe it’s time for something new. This verse is a reminder not to get too set in our ways.
By the way, if you have never observed Advent in a day-by-day manner, I would encourage you to do so. Look into the tradition of lighting a candle on an Advent wreath, reading a daily verse, or keeping an Advent calendar. It makes the experience of Christmas so much richer. My family has a few reasons to not be in the Christmas spirit right now, but we are going to observe Advent anyway — and I know it’s going to be good! Plus, when you observe this way, I think the commercialized noise of the holidays is quieted and put into perspective.